To this day, sex and sexuality remain taboo subjects for many. Despite a growing awareness of sexual fluidity, generations and cultures often resist open conversations about sexuality, let alone the idea of truly owning and embracing it. I believe that without accepting your sexual self, it’s difficult to fully understand and express who you truly are.
The Seed of Curiosity
My journey into self-expression began at a young age, sparked by watching my mother get ready to go out. I remember the way she radiated beauty, grace, and elegance as she prepared. In those moments, I realized she was expressing her true self—her whole self—a notion I longed to embody myself.
As a fashion designer and women’s life coach, my mission is to help women rediscover their self-expression as a pathway to freedom. I witness how we move, behave, and present ourselves to the world. This journey begins with the acceptance of the whole self, and I’ve found that a recurring aspect often suppressed is the sexual self.
The Journey of Self-Acceptance
Reflecting on my life, I’ve discovered that a significant part of understanding my true self involves owning and accepting my sexual part of me. For many years, societal beliefs led me to feel shame about my enjoyment of sex. However, a pivotal moment came when I realized that my sexuality is a source of power. It’s not just about sex; it’s about where my truth resides—my energy, my essence. When you embrace your whole self, including your sexuality, you liberate yourself to simply be. And how liberating that is!
A Natural Progression
Studying sexology feels like a natural progression in my professional and personal journey. It’s the missing link that unites all my skills and qualifications. As I complete my Graduate Certificate in Sexology, I aim to continue to the Diploma and Mastery levels. My goal is to integrate spirituality and sexuality, empowering you, my clients to create the lives and environments you envision.
Through workshops, one-on-one sessions, and custom-made clothing, I aspire to help women embrace their true selves. I want to provide the tools for healing from the stigma, discrimination, and shame associated with suppressed sexuality.
The Path to Empowerment
Owning your sexual self is not just about personal liberation; it’s about empowerment. It’s about breaking free from the constraints that society places on us and stepping into our truth. When women feel confident in their sexual selves, they can express their desires, set boundaries, and cultivate healthy relationships. Radiating a true confidence.
By fostering an environment of acceptance and understanding, we can support each other in this journey. It’s essential to create spaces where conversations about sexuality are normalized, allowing women to share their experiences without fear of judgment.
Conclusion
Embracing your sexual self is a profound act of self-love and acceptance. It opens the door to authenticity, creativity, and empowerment. As I continue my studies in sexology, I am excited to guide others in their journeys toward self-discovery and freedom. Together, we can break down the barriers of shame and stigma, paving the way for a world where every woman can proudly own her sexuality and live her truth.
Let’s celebrate the journey of self-expression and embrace the beautiful complexity of who we are!
