If you ever find yourself scrolling through social media, admiring someone else’s style and thinking, “I wish I could be like that,” then this blog is for you! It’s time to discover your true self-expression, break free from limiting beliefs, and learn how to dress in a way that aligns with the real you. When you walk your talk, your confidence shines from within.
The Essence of Inner Confidence
Inner confidence is the glow you see in others that everyone has. It’s not about the clothes themselves, but rather how those garments make you feel. Never let your clothes wear you; doing so sends a message that can leave you feeling uncomfortable and disconnected from your true energy. Remember: don’t transform—translate your true self!
“The World Is Your Runway”—Let’s Begin!
1. Don’t Follow Trends to the Letter
Use trends as inspiration but always bring the outfit back to you. It’s easy to get caught up in the latest fads and lose sight of your identity in a fashion trance. Instead of transforming into someone else, own your style by adding your signature touch to any trend you love. For instance, pair a trendy look with white sneakers for day or a statement sandal for evening.
2. Take Risks—Big or Small
Taking risks in your style can feel uncomfortable at first, and that’s okay! If an outfit feels too much, dial it back a little. The more risks you take, the more comfortable you’ll become. Start small: try a bold lipstick one day, or wear ripped jeans if that is your expression with an elegant camisole the next. Mixing edgy with classy. Experiment with layering, and don’t be afraid to wear unexpected colour combinations or print combinations.
3. Look in the Mirror
When you put together an outfit, take a moment to really look in the mirror. Ask yourself:
- Is this sitting right with me?
- Am I expressing my true self?
- What accessories if any will enhance the look?
Accessories are a fantastic way to make an outfit feel uniquely you!
4. Experiment, Experiment, Experiment!
Don’t be afraid to play with your clothes! Designers are constantly experimenting, so why shouldn’t you? Push your own boundaries! If you’re drawn to an item you wouldn’t normally wear, try it on. You might layer it differently, or style it in a way you’ve never considered. Allow yourself to make the rules—only what makes YOU feel good!
5. Stop Listening to Your Head
Your mind holds onto both positive and negative experiences, which can cloud your judgment. Instead, listen to your inner self. Before trying on an outfit, take a moment to breathe deeply. This helps clear your mind and allows your true self to shine through.
6. Take Selfies of Your Favorite Outfits
Capture your best looks with selfies! You might forget how you arranged a great outfit when you’re in the flow, so use your phone to take pictures. Smile, laugh, and express how you feel in your clothes. You can even print these selfies and put them up in your wardrobe for inspiration when you feel stuck.
Go Play in Your Wardrobe!
Finally, it’s time to have some fun! Clear your mind with a few deep breaths, and then dive into your wardrobe. Mix and match pieces, experiment with different combinations, and discover new ways to express yourself.
I’d love to see how you express your style! When you post your outfits on Instagram, don’t forget to tag me @rosepanza.
Remember: You are beautiful, amazing, and wonderfully unique. Let your style reflect the true you!
